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What I Like (and Don’t Like) about Christmas – The Good and the Bad About the Season

Home » OTHER TOPICS » Rants & Raves » What I Like (and Don’t Like) about Christmas – The Good and the Bad About the Season

Last Modified: August 23, 2023 //  by Anda //  11 Comments

The holidays come and go each year giving me that eerie sensation of déjà vu. As the days get shorter and the nights get colder, I find myself anticipating all the best things about Christmas and the many wonderful traditions that surround it. It’s that time of year when the wold seems entirely magical. 

Every other radio station is playing carols …

Streets and stores are lit up with the most colorful lights and decorations imaginable …

Christmas lights are one of the best things about Christmas
(Photo Credit: Georgene Moizuk Bramlage)

There are Christmas parties almost everywhere …

Sales in the stores …

And Christmas Cards from friends and family who live far away …

I love everything about Christmas! Or do I? 

Table of Contents

  • The Best Things About Christmas
    • 1. Choosing a Christmas Tree     
    • 2. Wrapping Gifts
    • 3. Cooking Traditional Food
    • 4. Spending Time With Friends and Family
  • The Worst Things About Christmas
    • 1. “What Do You Want For Christmas?”
    • 2.  Commercialization
    • 3. The Shopping Hell
    • 4. The “Merry Christmas” Controversy

The Best Things About Christmas

1. Choosing a Christmas Tree     

Artificial trees may be more economical and even look natural, but they can never smell like the fresh ones. In my family we keep up with this old Christmas tradition of picking our own fresh Christmas tree. So, every year in mid December we start the hunt for the perfect looking tree.

Best things about Christmas
Best things about Christmas (Photo credit: Samira Bouaou)

And we never find it.

Our tree is either too short, or too tall. or it has too many branches, or the wrong shape, or it has a crooked tip … But in the end we love our Christmas tree and bringing it home to decorate it is one of the best things about Christmas.

2. Wrapping Gifts

There is something about wrapping gifts that puts me in the Christmas spirit. Choosing the right paper and a pretty ribbon for the package and then placing it under the tree is really pleasing.

3. Cooking Traditional Food

Cooking special food at this time of the year is an old Christmas tradition in Romania which we try to keep up with. I love preparing the traditional Romanian dishes that my mother and grandmother used to make at Christmas. They remind me of my family, of the good times we had around the Christmas table. Christmas is the time when you get to eat all you want. And more than you should!

But Christmas is also the only time of the year when you shouldn’t feel guilty for indulging. Yes, your waist line may get a little thicker, but that’s what New Year’s Resolutions are for, right?!

4. Spending Time With Friends and Family

The best thing about Christmas is spending time with our loved ones. Nothing beats those moments that you share with your family and friends around a home-cooked meal. There is laughter and joy, old and new stories, sometimes a few tears when we reminisce over those who are no longer with us.

Christmas diner
Christmas Diner

But just as there are many wonderful things about Christmas, there are also some that may take the magic away from this holiday.

The Worst Things About Christmas

1. “What Do You Want For Christmas?”

The fist time I was asked this question I thought I didn’t hear it right. What DO I WANT for a gift? I don’t really WANT anything. What I WANT or NEED I can buy for myself at any time of year (luckily!)

A gift is something you receive without asking. It’s not something you deserve, or is owed to you. A gift is a nice thought that another person has for you: “I bought this for you thinking that you may like it.”

I always considered that a gift is supposed to be a surprise intended to please the receiver. If I am telling you what I want, where is the surprise? Why even bother to wrap up that gift since I already know what’s in the package?

Gifts, the Best thing about Christmas
(Photo credit: Klaus Post)

I’m always uncomfortable when asked this question because I get the feeling that those who ask me don’t really care what I would like. They just feel the pressure of having to give me a gift and want to get it over with fast and easy. Without having to think too much about it. Telling them “I don’t know” will lead them to believe that I am being difficult, so it’s a very unpleasant situation.  

I perfectly understand where the question is coming from. People don’t want to spend money on stuff that you’ll have no use for and will fill up your closets. But that happens because we don’t put any thought into gift giving anymore. We have too many “obligations” and too little time. Which leads me to the next bad thing about Christmas:

2.  Commercialization

Christmas is all about shopping now. People seem to have forgotten the “reason for the season.” Whether you celebrate the birth of Christ or not, using this great holiday for commercial purposes is outrageous.

Christmas stuff started showing up the stores as early as October lately, to encourage people to buy more and more. Shopping for Christmas is extremely expensive. People feel obliged to pick out the perfect gifts for friends, family, and coworkers (seriously?)

3. The Shopping Hell

I think the worst thing about Christmas is the shopping madness. It starts around Black Friday when, in their pursuit of cut-priced goods, people totally loose their common sense. Every weekend after Thanksgiving, the stores swarm with desperate shoppers who run around like crazy, elbowing, arguing, and wrestling to snag a bargain.

Unfortunately, that is also the best time of the year to find a wide variety of merchandise in every store. But traveling on the roads and finding parking around this time of year is a nightmare.

worst things about Christmas
Shopping hell

4. The “Merry Christmas” Controversy

Why are we so afraid to say “Merry Christmas” in this country? After all,  America was founded as a Christian nation, wasn’t it? And while many other religious faiths coexist peacefully on its territory, the majority of Americans are still Christians. 

According to a 2014 study by the Pew Research Center, 70.6% of the adult population identified themselves as Christians. Then why is saying “Merry Christmas”such a huge deal?

Wishing people Merry Christmas is one of the best things about Christmas

 

The way I see it, if someone tries to say something nice to you, you shouldn’t get upset because they didn’t say quite the way you wanted. They may not know you are an atheist, or a Jew, or a Buddhist.

Personally, I prefer “Merry Christmas,” but I don’t get upset if someone who’s trying to be politically correct wishes me Happy Holidays. Then why should others feel offended if I wish them a Merry Christmas? Just because they don’t celebrate Christmas, it doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be ‘merry.’ Or does it?!

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Anda is an award winning travel writer, avid globetrotter and passionate photographer. She is the voice behind "Travel Notes & Beyond," a collection of stories and travel impressions from her wanderings around the world. When she is not busy writing, traveling, or editing photographs, you can find her hiking in the foothills behind her house together with her husband and their dog.

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  1. Richard

    March 5, 2025 at 3:27 am

    I really enjoyed your perspective on Christmas! I completely agree about the overwhelming commercialization; it can definitely take away from the true spirit of the holiday. But I love how you highlighted the importance of spending time with family and making memories. Your post reminded me to focus on what truly matters during the season!

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  2. Anca D.

    February 13, 2025 at 12:03 pm

    I really enjoyed your insights on Christmas! I completely agree with your thoughts about the stress of shopping and the pressure to create the perfect holiday. It’s refreshing to see someone acknowledge that while Christmas can be magical, it also comes with its challenges. Thanks for sharing!

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  3. Bloon

    November 22, 2024 at 3:31 pm

    I love how you captured the magic of Christmas, especially the joy of spending time with family and friends. It’s such a festive time! I can totally relate to your feelings about the stress of shopping and the pressure to make everything perfect, though. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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  4. afisindhu

    December 25, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    Thanks Anda! though I agree it can sometimes be over commercialized. Meeting up with friends and family is my favorite part. MERRY CHRISTMAS and stay blessed.

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  5. Gaurav Kumar

    December 25, 2017 at 10:08 am

    Hi Anda,

    I never think twice when it comes to buy cake but choosing a Christmas tree almost make my head go round and round. There is no doubt that every festival is more commercialized these days.

    For me Christmas is the beginning of not just the holidays but it is also the time to think and plan next year.

    Enjoy and cheers.

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  6. Rhonda Albom

    December 23, 2017 at 1:37 pm

    Why the northern half settles into cold and shorter days, I just enjoyed the summer solstice with temperatures around 23C (around 74F). Yes, there is commercialization down under but I don’t find it overly intrusive. It’s more about catching up with friends, beaches, BBQs, and camping. New Zealand refers to it as the “silly season”. Schools are out for 6 weeks and people travel all around the country. We don’t get the Walmart shopping/skirmish scenes that appear on Youtube and the news this time of year (there isn’t even a store here as large as the smallest Walmart in the US). Anda, I wish you a happy silly season from the bottom of the world 🙂

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    • Anda Galffy

      December 24, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      Thank you, Rhonda. I wish you a very Merry Christmas too. Hope to catch up with you on the road sometimes soon.

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  7. Ryan Biddulph

    December 22, 2017 at 6:20 pm

    Hi Anda,

    Totally vibe with you on both takes. I appreciate the good cheer and the tree and all that stuff. But commercialization is rough. One thing we need to do – as a species – is take this Christmas attitude with us throughout the year. Cheeriness increases for these few weeks. Then goes away for a year. Why not be happy throughout the year? Do not choose your vibe based on one day on a calendar LOL. Weird, right?

    Ryan

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    • Anda Galffy

      December 22, 2017 at 6:50 pm

      Yeah, absolutely, Ryan.

      Reply
  8. Suze

    December 22, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    Christmas definitely brightens up a dreary time of year, though I agree it can sometimes be over commercialized. Meeting up with friends and family is my favourite part

    Reply
    • Anda Galffy

      December 22, 2017 at 6:50 pm

      Mine too, Suze. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas.

      Reply

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